Drug Misuse: Conversation starters

Helping a Loved One

Section #1

It can be hard to talk to someone you love about a drug problem. But having a conversation about getting help can make a big difference. Use these tips to get started.

Be honest about how you feel.

• “You’re very important to me.”
• “I’m worried about your drug use. It puts you at risk for an overdose, which can be very dangerous.”
• “Your drug misuse is affecting our relationship.”

Remind them things can get better.

• “You’re not alone. Millions of people struggle with drug addiction — it’s nothing to be ashamed of.”
• “Dealing with drug addiction is hard, but it’s possible. Many people have stopped using drugs, and you can be one of them.”
• “Drug addiction is an illness, and you can get treatment for it.”
• “There are different ways to treat drug addiction, including medicine, talk therapy, or both.”

Offer to help.

• “To get started, you can make an appointment with your doctor — or I can help you find someone else to talk to, like a therapist or social worker.”
• “There are support groups for people with drug addiction — I can help you find one.”
•  “I’m here for you. You can call or text me at any time if you need support — or if you just want to talk.”